Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Our adoption story part one

I can't believe our baby is 2 weeks old already. It has literally flown by! I keep looking back to getting the phone call and leaving for Utah feeling like I need to pinch myself because I'm dreaming! Sweet Harrison's due date is actually this Friday 2-8-13! It was a normal weekend, of course I had every intention of starting to pack my stuff for Utah IN CASE we got the call early. But of course I slacked and got as far as getting my bag down from the attic but no packing! On Sunday jan. 20 I felt like death. I had been sick with an upper respiratory infection and it was getting worse by the minute. Pretty sure I had bronchitis. I stayed on the couch all day Sunday watchingtv and pretty much doing nothing since I felt like death. Brian was back in the office working Sunday night and I went back to tell him goodnight as he told me he was going to sleep on the cough to stay away from me bc he didn't want to get sick too. So I go to wash my face and brush my teeth and get in bed. I had just turned the lights off and noticed an 801 phone number appear on my screen! Wait...801 is freaking UTAH! It's 11 pm Sunday. This must be it! My heart was pounding and I picked up the phone. I had lost my voice and sounded like a 80 year old smoker! Our social worker, Sarah, said its time...her water broke! I came into the room and put her on speaker to tell Brian the details too. We were in complete shock but lunching off the walls excited! We were going to have a baby! We prayed that we could arrive for the birth! The next few hours were a flurry of lots of activity...trying to find flights, pack, figure out what baby stuff to bring, arrangements for our 3 dogs, tying up loose ends for work. Whew! Of course neither of us slept that night and we were ready to go for our 8:30 am flight to Utah Monday am! I HATE to fly but didn't even have time to feel nervous. It was THE longest flight ever bc we were so anxious for news. We ordered the go go in flight Internet and stalked our email to communicate with our social worker as to how our sweet birth mother was progressing. Things were moving slow, so time was certainly on our side. We arrived in Utah, rented our car and sped to the hospital. We arrived around 12:30 to alta view hospital and were able to go in the room w Our birth mother. She was a true champion and in such great spirits. This was our first time to actually meet face to face and it was one of the best moments of my life. We had such butterflies before we walked into the room! We visited for a couple hours then left the room or them to check to see how dilated she was. She was still moving slow prior to this check. Our social worker and her social worker ran to grab a quick bite while this was going on. Brian went in to her room to give her some chap stick that he went out tongetbfor her and said she looked like she was starting to progress and was definitely feeling the contractions more. She had made a birth plan that she did not want us in the delivery room, but in the room immediately after delivery. I decided to go to the desk on the maternity floor to find out where to order flowers for her from. While I was doing this all of the sudden there was lots of activity going on....a baby was about to be born! We just didnt know where due to HIPAA :)Brian ran to the restroom and in the one minute he was in there came out and said um I hear a baby in our room crying! Then we saw a few nurses come out smiling and I asked them, but they couldn't tell us, again due to HIPAA. Then we heard the sweet lullaby music they play on the loudspeaker every time a baby is born. I started crying and then knew! In the meantime Brian had called our social workers and said you have to come back! He's here or we at least think he is here. They came back and we sat in the waiting room for a few,nthen her social worker went to check on her. She came out to tell us the great news and said it was time for us to meet our baby. This was the moment we had been waiting for....

8 comments:

  1. Awesome, that brought a tear to my eye, so happy for you all!

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  2. I have been reading your blogs about your ups/downs with conceiving and now you have this bundle of joy you never expected would come true is absolutely breath taking...reading this excerpt brought tears to my eyes because I know you have wanted this more than anything and if anybody deserves this happiness its you and Brian!!!..please keep this blog going so we can all be a part of this awesome story!!

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  3. What an amazing story!! Brings tears to my eyes! Congratulations!

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  4. I'm tearing up reading this. So, so happy for your family of 3...and so ready for part 2! : )

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  5. What a wonderful beginning. I am so happy for you three! :)

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  6. What a story!! I can't imagine all the emotions you were experiencing. Its simply beautiful!!

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  7. Oh Lauren I am so so Happy for you!! I am so sorry I havent been in touch. He is just perfect!

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  8. This is so awesome to read about!! :) so exciting!

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